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Love And Rebuke

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Lex Lutor Iyornumbe
Senior Software Developer @ Punch Agency

The Very Unpopular Art of Rebuke 🗣🔥

Picture, if you will, a world where people are more concerned about feelings than facts. A world where rebuke is seen as 'harsh,' 'intolerant,' or—heaven forbid—'unloving.' But in the dimension of biblical reality, there exists a different standard, one that does not sway with cultural trends or Twitter outrage.

When Rebuke is the Only Love Language 🚪🌌

Enter Apostle Paul. A man who didn't just sip his tea while error ran rampant—no, Paul rebuked, corrected, and when necessary, threw in a few divine threats for good measure. Titus 1:12-14 reminds us of this ancient but ever-relevant truth: rebuke is not an option, it is a necessity. And not the soft, timid, “My dear brother, may I kindly suggest…” type. No. Paul said sharp rebuke. A rebuke so clear and strong that even the recipient's ancestors would feel it. ⚡

The Lies of Nice Christianity 🤡

Now, modern Christianity has a strange problem: it's gotten too nice. Somewhere along the line, believers started mistaking politeness for holiness. The result? A generation allergic to correction. Ask yourself: when was the last time you saw a Nigerian pastor rebuke a congregation without cushioning it with praise?

"Oh, you are all so wonderful, chosen by God, full of potential… but maybe, just maybe, you should consider not lying, cheating, and committing fraud in the name of hustle culture." 🙃

This is not the rebuke of the Bible. This is political correctness masquerading as godliness. Paul didn’t rebuke like a motivational speaker. Jesus didn’t look at the Pharisees and say, "Gentlemen, you may have slightly misunderstood my message." No, He called them vipers, whitewashed tombs, and hypocrites. 💀🔥

When Rebuke is the Real Love 💔➡️❤️

Ah, but some will say, “Isn’t love gentle? Shouldn’t we be kind?” Yes. But real love doesn’t leave people comfortable in their error. Imagine a doctor who sees cancer in a patient but says, “I don’t want to make you sad, so let’s just pretend it’s indigestion.” That is not kindness. That is murder. 🚨💀

Rebuke is love in its highest form. It drags people away from destruction, forces them to face reality, and ultimately saves them. It is the verbal equivalent of slapping sense into someone who is about to walk into incoming traffic. 🚗💥

The Command: Rebuke Sharply 🗡️

Paul didn’t say "Rebuke gently." He didn’t say, "Rebuke in a polite and culturally sensitive manner." No, he said "rebuke sharply." And for good reason—some people don’t respond to soft words. Some need a rebuke so firm that they feel it in their soul.

The prophets did it. Jesus did it. Paul did it. But in today’s world, if you even dare hint at sharp rebuke, people will clutch their pearls and say, "This is not the spirit of Christ!" 😂

The Real Spirit of Christ 🕊️

Here’s a thought: the real spirit of Christ is the spirit of truth. And sometimes, truth must be spoken loudly, boldly, and unapologetically. Not out of arrogance, not out of self-righteousness, but out of a deep, fiery love for those in danger.

So, dear traveler, as you step back into a world where error is dressed up as progress, remember:

  • Rebuke is not hate; it is the highest form of love.
  • The Bible is the standard—not shifting cultural norms.
  • Sometimes, the most Christlike thing you can do… is tell someone they are dead wrong.

Now, go forth. Be bold. Be fierce. And if necessary, shake a few tables.

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